Support. A simple enough word, a simple enough concept, but it makes a huge difference. It can be the difference between being mediocre and fantastic at something, it can be the difference of actually wanting to get out of bed in the morning and wanting to curl up and hide under the covers for a while.
Growing up I never really felt like I was fully supported by my dad when I was playing basketball, the same way my sister feels like he doesn't support her when it comes to her cheer leading. Message to all parents: It is one thing to support your kids financially and provide for them in that sense, it is a completely different matter when it comes to emotional support. As much as we may complain, we actually do want to see you at our games. (Even if you're yelling may embarrass us.) Believe me, it feels a lot better to have someone there than it does to constantly have people asking you why your parent never comes to your games. We understand you're busy and can't make it to every single one, but coming every once in a while is much appreciated.
There are enough people trying to tear you down everyday. Everyone has that one person who is relentless when it comes to lowering your self-esteem. Try to avoid them and if you can't try your best to ignore them because chances are they're lying to you and they're wrong. Surround yourself with good people who care about you and don't give up too easily. To anyone who is depressed and thinking about suicide, no one can help you unless you let them and suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Find your rock, because everyone needs a rock. That is someone who is stable and consistently there to support you through whatever you need help through. Stay positive.
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